I Got That A Lot.

"The depth of the love of parents for their children cannot be measured. It is like no other relationship. It exceeds concern for life itself. The love between a parent and their children is always forever."

What you got a lot everyday? Whose money you spend up every single day? Who is the one that encourage you to study well? Tell me, who? 

Parents. One simple word but bring a pile of impact to our life in this world. They gave a lot of love to us. They teach us to be a good and clever person. They feed you with nice and delicious food so that you can grew up well. They bring you to the hospital or clinic when you are sick. They earn money for you, so that you can buy Bella Ammara, Guess, Calvin Klein! If im listing all of those thing that they gave to us, two pages of this blog wouldn't be enough. 

My parents often said to my siblings and I;

"We are so grateful that we have you all as our children. We don't have any asset, only you guys are our asset. It doesn't matter if you're ugly or not flawless, the only thing that matter to us is you have good education, score well in every examination and stay in the correct path (Islam)."

My parents are really my backbone. I need to study smart, because that's the only key that lead to success. I don't have a lot of money now to give to my parents. But i'll try to make it through the days. The journey to be a surgeon is still long. I will face some harsh days and thousands of obstacles. I promise you mom and dad, I would never ever give up. I will make it for you! I got a lot from you, thus I hope I can give back to you A LOT! Please stay healthy and well, so that you can see your successful daughter soon. 

Dear God, i sincerely thank you for my awesome parents. I will never forget my parents, because they are the reason why am I and who am I.

p/s: I don't really know why am I crying while making this entry!! Im being such an emotional kid. Hahaha.

Making judgement.

Making judgement is quite common in our daily life. People often judge others instantly by their clothes, their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. And many more! The list is endless. Most of the citizen, including me are making a quick judgement even we did not know who that person really are. What's even worse is that some people decide to judge someone else, but don't even know who they are themselves.

Did you ever heard a story of a donkey, a man and his wife? Or maybe there are another version of this story like a donkey, a father and his son. Both have the same storyline. It is about society who are being too judgemental and there are also some person who always trying to satisfy others' perception. It is quite upsetting when everything we do being judge by others who does not know what actually happened. For me, I will do whatever I want to do as it is not crossing the boundary, and just ignore those craps. Whatever we say, whatever we do, people will always find something to say, isn't it?

Ya ya ya, I admit sometimes I also making judgement towards others. Well, I am just a normal human being who often make mistakes. But after I realize back then, I said to myself every time I want to judge people "Dear self, never judge others. You never know how bad and tough life is to someone. And maybe they are experiencing unexpected events in their life that force them to become that way." That's it, you can teach your heart and your mind to be not too judgemental towards people. Because you own your body, not anyone else. Only you can change your way of thinking. Positive thinking please, can you?

There are abundant of people who always making judgement towards me especially to those who did not know me well. My senior had told me once, "I thought you are arrogant at the first place, but then when I become closer with you. You are fun and really easygoing!" Thus, do not make a quick judgement based on their facial expression and clothes. Who knows when you met her that day, someone accidentally hit her beloved cat and that cat almost die, maybe? That's why she looks moody all day long.

Last but not least, do not make a quick judgement towards other. Everyone has a secret they don't wanna share, has a past that no one heard about. Everyone has a story left untold. So pretty please, never start judging someone, thinking like you know them well. Because the truth is, you really don't. Plus, if you keep judging people, you have no time to love them. So guys, love me and do not judge me! Let's spread the love❤